WIFE HAS GREAT RIGHT

WIFE HAS GREAT RIGHT

23-JULY-ENG 7

RAJIV NAYAN AGRAWAL

ARA---------------------------At Paramanpur Chaturmasya Vrat Sthal, India's great sage Saint Shri Lakshmiprapann Jiyar Swami Ji Maharaj explained the story of Lord Vishnu's fourth incarnation in detail. Lord Vishnu's fourth incarnation was as Nar Narayan. Lord Shriman Narayan said to Lakshmi Ji, Devi Ji, we want to perform leela on earth in the form of Nar Narayan. That is why you will have to stay in Vaikunth Lok for a few days. Lakshmi Ji said, Lord, we will also come to earth with you.

Lord Shriman Narayan was thinking in his mind as to where he should take birth to take the form of Nar and Narayan. Then the Lord thought of taking birth in the house of Brahma Ji's son Dharma.

In the scriptures, many wives of Dharma have been mentioned. Such as Murti, Shri etc. Shriman Narayan wanted to take birth as Nar Narayan as Guru and disciple. Lord appeared as Guru and disciple from Dharma's wife Murti.

After which the Lord was searching for a place to do penance. He reached Shiva in Kedar region. Where he asked Shiva about the appropriate place to do penance. Shiva told the place to do penance to Lord who was in the form of Nar Narayan in Badri Narayan. Even today there are places named Nar Parvat and Narayan Parvat in Badri Narayan. On one side Nar and on the other side Lord started doing penance in the form of Narayan as Brahmachari. There Lakshmi also started giving shade to the Lord in the form of a tree in the form of Badri. After which the Nar Narayan incarnation of Lord Shriman Narayan is known as Badri Narayan.

When Lord Shri Krishna started going in Dwapar Yuga, at that time the Lord was asked that Lord you are going, but where will you have your darshan. The same Lord Shri Krishna said that you people will be able to see me in Badri Narayan in the form of Krishna. Even today Lord Shriman Narayan resides in Badri Narayan. Religious texts like Ramayana, Shrimad Bhagwat etc. wherever the divine acts of God are discussed, Lord Shriman Narayan resides in all the abodes of God.

When God was about to take incarnation in the form of Nar Narayan, at that time he was discussing with Lakshmi ji, then Bhrigu ji felt like testing God. Brahma ji's son Bhrigu ji set out to test Brahma, Shiva and Vishnu ji. After which Bhrigu ji first went to Brahma ji. Where Brahma ji was sitting with a Brahmini.

Bhrigu ji started speaking some wrong words to Brahma ji. Brahma ji, you should not sit with your wife like this. Bhrigu ji was the son of Brahma ji. Hearing the words of Bhrigu ji, Brahma ji got angry and stood up to hit him. By then the Brahmini stopped Brahma ji. Bhrigu ji said we were testing you. You failed the test. Next Bhrigu ji reached Shiv ji. There also Shiv ji was sitting with Parvati ji. Bhrigu ji repeated the same things to Shiv ji.

After which Shiv ji got angry. He picked up his trident and stood up to hit him. Shiv ji was stopped by Parvati ji. Parvati ji said Lord Bhrigu ji is your brother in relation. That is why do not pay attention to his words. Forgive me. In this way Shankar ji also got angry. Then Bhrigu ji said you also failed the test.

Next Bhrigu ji reached Lord Vishnu ji. Where Lord Shriman Narayan was resting with Lakshmi ji. Laxmi ji was pressing the feet of the Lord. Bhrigu ji went and started abusing the Lord. It does not befit you to rest with your wife in this manner. Bhrigu ji said many things to Lord Shriman Narayan. After which Bhrigu ji hit Lord Shriman Narayan on his chest with his feet. After that Lord Shriman Narayan started pressing the feet of Bhrigu ji. Lord Shriman Narayan said that your feet were hurting due to the attack. We will serve you.

In this way, without getting angry, the Lord was pressing the feet of Bhrigu ji. Bhrigu ji said, Lord, you are the best in the world. You should be worshipped first. In this way, in any worship, the resolution of Lord Vishnu is done first.

Further, Swami ji also told about Dharmapatni, Lakshmi ji who resides in the heart of Lord Shriman Narayan and who also resides in the chest of the Lord. Who is also known as Dharmapatni. Who is called Dharmapatni? The one who lives her life according to religion and culture by staying within the limits of her husband is called a dharmapatni (wife of religion). The one who is a wife of religion is also called a dharmapatni (wife of religion). According to the scriptures, the wife gets 50% of the good deeds of the husband without doing anything. If the husband does something wrong, then the wife is not blamed for even one percent of it.

Because the wife is a dharmapatni (wife of religion). That is why she gets her share of religion. But the wife is not a sinful wife. That is why the wife does not have a share in the sins committed by the husband. By the way, in practical language, the husband is called husband in English. Husband means the wife who lives her life happily and with dignity with her husband is also called Dharmapatni. But nowadays husband is defined in a wrong way.

Swami ji also discussed about the marriage of sons and daughters. He said that girls should be married between 20 to 25 years. Even if you want to give higher education to your daughters, they should still get married. Even after that, if you want to educate them, then you should definitely educate them. But there is a time for marital dignity. Today, in the name of higher education, people are getting their daughters married after 30 years, at 35, 40 years. Which further becomes an obstacle in the expansion of the family.

That is why whether it is a boy or a girl, they should definitely get married at the age of 30 years, at the most, not 20 to 25 years. Today, due to not getting married on time in the society, boys and girls get married according to their own will. Due to which the wishes of the parents are shattered. A wrong message goes in the society and culture. Due to which the honor and respect of the parents is also hurt. That is why there is a need to pay special attention to marital dignity. While getting married, the Nadi of the boy and the girl should not be the same. While getting married, special attention should be paid to the Gotra Kul Khandaan.

The fifth incarnation of God took place in the form of Kapil Dev. Kardam Rishi who was going to do penance of God. At that time God said that you should get married and do penance etc. Kardam Rishi said that we will do penance by remaining celibate. Because we have to attain God.

Then God said that we want to be born as your son, then you think whether you want to get us by doing penance or you want to get us as yourself. The same Kardam Rishi decided to live life according to married dignity. After which Kardam Rishi got married to Manu Maharaj's daughter. The same Manu Maharaj's daughter Devhoti got married to Kardam Rishi. Later, nine daughters were born to sage Kardam. After which Lord Kapil Dev Ji was born as the 10th son.